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Love is not about finding the perfect person but about seeing an imperfect person perfectly. It’s about embracing their flaws and celebrating their strengths. Love is about being there for each other, through thick and thin.
When two people are truly in love, they create a bond that is unbreakable. They share a passion that burns brightly, and in that passion, they find themselves making love.
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Girl on the Net
Touch me... Yeah, like that.
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“I volunteer as tribute!”: The problem with straight dating
30/03/2025 | 18:12:53 |Before I get stuck in, a confession: I had a different blog post lined up for today. It was a silly piece expressing some frustration at horny men who ‘volunteer as tribute’. When I write about how much I love getting fucked, there’s often a random stranger ready to pop up in the comments offering […]
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Monogamish: a manifesto
28/03/2025 | 10:44:28 |I am monogamish. Monogamish like mostly monogamous. Monogamish like not polyamorous. Monogamish like ‘I’d love to have a boyfriend who loved and respected me enough that he was happy to share me around (and vice versa) while never making me feel like I’m second best.’ Monogamish: a manifesto. Let’s do this. The term ‘monogamish’ means […]
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Why the phrase ‘the ick’ gives me the ick
23/03/2025 | 13:01:17 |You know what ‘the ick’ is, right? A feeling you get for someone based off a silly/cringe/weird thing they did or said or are, which torpedoes your burgeoning attraction for them. Little moments of disgust which, once noticed, mean you can no longer fancy that person. It is often understood that ‘the ick’ is both […]
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Femdom Resource
The beauty of dominant women
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Categorization Complexity
31/03/2025 | 10:04:47 | Is it rude to turn art into porn? To take a shot originally intended as art and present it in a sexual context? To change the artists intentions? Assuming we can judge their intentions of course. The most obvious cases of this are image captioning – literally putting words into peoples mouths. A good number … Continue reading "Categorization Complexity"
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The Rules
29/03/2025 | 09:36:35 | I’ve mused in past posts on the difference between art, erotica and porn. Categorization can be tricky. Fortunately, Mistress Matisse is here with a Bluesky post to clear things up… I’ve modeled nude for art, and I’ve modeled nude for porn. And here is the way you know which is which. In art photos: You … Continue reading "The Rules"
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How Not To
26/03/2025 | 08:45:35 | If you ever needed a guide on how not do do a professional BDSM session, this story out of San Diego might be a pretty good template. It features a man who paid an Only Fans model $11K for a BDSM session featuring mummification and breathplay. He was intoxicated, she had zero experience with BDSM, … Continue reading "How Not To"
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Oh Joy Sex Toy
A Sex Education and Toy Review Comic
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Outgrowing Social Anxiety by Ripley LaCross
01/04/2025 | 07:02:00 |
Ripley gets brave, and attends Size Con with the team! A piece of autobio, journalism and kink, all mixed into one, and a fun way to see some of the process behind OJST’s first group outing. A shout out to Editor Ziggy helped make this one happen this week. He helped write the early pages […]
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Reshaping Sex Culture One Comic at a Time
28/03/2025 | 21:58:05 | Holy cow, Matvei Mozhaev‘s two-part radio documentary for Queery on Oh Joy Sex Toy is just… Wow. Part One: Reshaping Sex Culture One Comic at a Time This is a perfect introduction for a new reader to find out just what the heck this thing is and it’s a fascinating peek behind the curtain for […]
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Kennel Club Vol. 2 by Hien Pham
25/03/2025 | 07:02:00 |
Come join me as I explore the Western Australia’s Pups and Handlers‘ first kinky social event of 2025 where friendships were made and a queer community was built. Massive thank-you to WA-PAH for putting on a lovely party! I’ve always felt their welcoming embrace, and I hope this love letter can express my gratitude. Funnily […]
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A Night At The Atlantic Sex Show by Inam
18/03/2025 | 07:02:00 |
Inam journals up an adventure as she bravely visits the Atlantic Sex Show in Halifax! A lovely fun slice of journalism taking us a little bit behind the curtain. Thank you so much Inam for the rad comic! Instagram Do you crave more kink community? WELL DO I HAVE THE PLACE FOR YOU… Come and […]
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Calling The Shots by Daverage
11/03/2025 | 07:02:00 |
When you’re long distance, sometimes you gotta phone it in with your sweetie— but that don’t mean it’s not good! Fortunately, Daverage has written a sweetly sexy story that helps two long distance lovers CUM together ;D Ever so thankful for Daverage – I’ve been a fan of their work for ages, was super excited […]
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Sugarbutch
Queer sex, kink, gender, and relationships by Sinclair Sexsmith
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Sinclair’s 2025 Calendar
24/01/2025 | 00:05:34 | Here’s where I’ll be and what I’ll be teaching — online & in person — in 2025! This page will be updated as things are added....
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You’ll Get What’s Coming
22/10/2024 | 01:00:08 | I wrench her other arm behind her back and hold her wrists together. “It only hurts because you’re struggling,” I growl. “Fuck you,” she snaps,...
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Elust 178 includes my story “Don’t Swallow”
17/10/2024 | 00:38:18 | Welcome to Elust 178 Cover image courtesy of Anais Leigh. Elust is the only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof...
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Beg For It: A Collaborative Quickie Guest Post by Writing Spicy authors
16/10/2024 | 05:43:43 | collaboration between Juneboi, Jezebel Jett, Lucy Rose, Sinclair Sexsmith, Sixten Black, & SJ Content warnings: previously negotiated power dynamics, D/s, daddy/boy, penetration, begging, blow job,...
Role-Play Love Game
Role-playing can be a thrilling and intimate way to deepen your connection with your partner. It allows you to explore new dynamics, fantasies, and emotions in a safe and consensual environment. Here’s a simple yet exciting role-play scenario to ignite passion and creativity in your relationship:
Scenario: The Stranger at the Café
You and your partner decide to meet at a cozy café, pretending to be strangers. Here’s how the game unfolds:
Setting the Scene:
- Choose a café or create the ambiance at home with candles, soft music, and a table set for two.
- Dress up in outfits that make you feel confident and attractive. Think of it as your "character's" wardrobe.
The Characters:
- You: A mysterious traveler visiting the city for the first time. You’re curious, charming, and a little flirtatious.
- Your Partner: A local artist who frequents the café. They’re creative, intriguing, and love meeting new people.
The Interaction:
- Start by sitting at separate tables. Exchange glances, smiles, and subtle gestures to build tension.
- Strike up a conversation. Compliment each other’s style, ask about their interests, and let the chemistry flow naturally.
- Keep the conversation light and playful, but let the underlying attraction simmer.
The Twist:
- As the conversation deepens, reveal small details about your "characters." Maybe you’re both searching for something—or someone—special.
- Let the role-play evolve into a shared adventure. Perhaps you decide to explore the city together or share a secret passion.
The Climax:
- As the evening progresses, let the boundaries between reality and fantasy blur. End the night with a passionate embrace, still in character, or reveal your true identities for a playful twist.
Why This Works:
- Builds Anticipation: The slow build-up of tension makes every moment exciting.
- Encourages Creativity: You and your partner can improvise and explore new sides of yourselves.
- Deepens Connection: Role-playing allows you to see each other in a new light, fostering intimacy and trust.
Tips for a Successful Role-Play:
- Communicate: Discuss boundaries, preferences, and safe words beforehand to ensure both partners feel comfortable.
- Stay in Character: Commit to your roles to make the experience immersive and fun.
- Have Fun: Don’t take it too seriously. Laughter and playfulness are key to a memorable role-play.
Example Dialogue:
You: "I couldn’t help but notice your sketchbook. Are you an artist?"
Your Partner: "Yes, I love capturing the beauty of this city. And you? You don’t look like you’re from around here."
You: "I’m just passing through. But something—or someone—caught my eye."